the dangers of getting married for sex

the dangers of getting married for sex

There’s a saying in the church ‘It’s better to marry than to burn.’ It’s taken from 1 Corinthians 7:9. In talking to the unmarried, Paul (the author of Corinthians) advises them to get married instead of losing control. The explanation of this scripture seems pretty...
How Important Are Our Sexual Needs?

How Important Are Our Sexual Needs?

Within each of us is a sexual need. The desire for sex is a basic human need, so why do we sometimes feel guilty about being horny? Biologically, we have an inclination for reproduction but beyond that, sex can also help us fulfil our intimacy needs. Interestingly...
is everyone manipulative?

is everyone manipulative?

Short answer yes, long answer also yes. Everyone is manipulative. Everyone is either subconsciously or unconsciously striving to obtain what they need. At baseline, every human being is selfish. It becomes a life’s work to overcome that selfishness so we can exist in...
is it healthy to suppress sexual urges?

is it healthy to suppress sexual urges?

Growing up in a conservative Christian household, I was taught this about sex; it was bad, don’t do it, you will die and go to hell. I was indirectly encouraged to suppress my sexual urges, which I attempted to do by pushing down sexual thoughts, abstaining from...